• The Gift of Our Work

    Sometimes, we forget how much work we have done to get to where we are today. On a regular basis, I need to remind myself how far I have come, especially when I am reminded of the ways that I fell short in the past. Regret is a hopeless word. It feels heavy with guilt, […]


  • Nothing to Prove or Protect

    I’ve been posting blogs for several years on this WordPress site. I confess most of what I wrote early on was anonymous and is now set to private. This blog was initially an assignment given by my therapist to help me find my voice and connect with others. It has indeed played a big part […]


  • Love was Never the Problem

    love was never the problem. The lack of love always was.


  • Following the Truth

    Maybe faith isn’t about certainty, but learning to ask – and sit in the complexity of – good questions. This post was circulating on my Facebook feed last week. It caused me to sit with the complex question and wonder what is my faith really based on? Is it based on what others have taught […]